Lets say that you have someone that you like. They talk to you all the time. And they smile at you and lets say your mind is getting the vibes. You know those ones. The winky moment kind of saying hey maybe I like you. Well maybe you think I gotta tell everyone, well, see I think the better bet would be to act on your thoughts, you think they like you? So get to know them see if you like them too! Then ask them out! Otherwise you could accidentally get stuck with the insecurities of previous generations, so the most important part is to do you and not let others instill fear.